I never played a board wargame against someone, sad
I've only played once in my life against a real person sitting across the table from me. Back in high school I was trying to introduce a friend to board wargaming and he played a couple of turns with me until saying "let's stop playing this is boring". It was then I realized that yeah, this hobby of mine is something I'll have to play by myself in a basement somewhere.
Wargaming is a lonely life but it still is fun. Just wish I could get a hug.