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Title: Well... 2016 continues to suck...
Post by: Barthheart on June 25, 2016, 03:38:35 PM
My father, 76, passed away in his sleep last night/this morning.  :'(
He was a good father and mentor to me, even though when I became an adult his told me he never wanted kids.
Canadian Forces Chief Warrent Officer when he retired after 30 years service and then did 7 more years as a public servent purchasing and having installed the North Warning unmanned radar system in Canada's Arctic, which in one of my many jobs I got to work on maintaining and supplying those same stations.
Took all his savings and retired to a house on the side of a hill over looking the ocean in Grenada in the carribean. Not too bad for a farm kid from PEI who ran away at 15.

He will be missed.

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Post by: bbmike on June 25, 2016, 03:40:44 PM
Very sorry to hear that, Barthheart. I can't imaging what that's like but know I will have to face it someday. My thoughts are with you.  :(
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Post by: MetalDog on June 25, 2016, 03:46:36 PM
Deepest sympathies my friend.  I pray for you and your family in your time of grief.
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Post by: Gusington on June 25, 2016, 04:12:19 PM
RIP
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Post by: bob48 on June 25, 2016, 04:19:58 PM
Sorry to hear that, Vance. Deepest sympathies.
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Post by: Staggerwing on June 25, 2016, 04:30:05 PM
Barth, you have my sympathies as well. He sounds like an admirable fellow who made much of his life.
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Post by: bayonetbrant on June 25, 2016, 04:41:28 PM
wow.  So sorry to hear :(
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Post by: Steelgrave on June 25, 2016, 04:50:55 PM
So sorry, Barth. Prayers for you and your family, brother.
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Post by: steve58 on June 25, 2016, 04:54:20 PM
Barthheart -- losing a parent is rough.  He sounds like he was a great Dad.  Will keep you in my prayers. 
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Post by: Boggit on June 25, 2016, 05:36:39 PM
Hey Barthheart, I feel your pain. :( I lost my dad back in 1998. You never lose the person in your heart, but time does soften the pain. I'm with you brother. :)
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Post by: JasonPratt on June 25, 2016, 06:10:30 PM
 :'(

We're at that age, aren't we? God give you and your family strength and peace, and bless his soul.
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Post by: Capn Darwin on June 25, 2016, 07:08:53 PM
Vance, so sorry to hear about your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
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Post by: RobertCrandall on June 25, 2016, 07:10:37 PM
So sorry to hear this distressing news.  Strength and peace to you in this troubling time and may the rest of the year turn out better for you.

Rob C
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Post by: panzerde on June 25, 2016, 07:16:53 PM
Vance, very sorry to hear this. I lost my dad some years ago, but still think of him every day. You are yours are in my thoughts.
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Post by: OJsDad on June 25, 2016, 07:31:27 PM
Sorry about your lose Vance. 
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Post by: Barthheart on June 25, 2016, 07:37:17 PM
Thanks everyone for your kind words and thoughts. It does help.
:)
What a great community we have here.  O0
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Post by: airboy on June 25, 2016, 08:05:38 PM
Sorry for the loss of your father.  May he find peace and joy in heaven.
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Post by: Silent Disapproval Robot on June 25, 2016, 09:43:41 PM
Shitty deal. Sorry Barth.

:-[
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Post by: DoctorQuest on June 25, 2016, 09:54:35 PM
My sincere condolences.
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Post by: Greybriar on June 26, 2016, 01:15:09 AM
Sorry to learn of the loss of your father. :'(  I extend my sincere sympathy.
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Post by: mirth on June 26, 2016, 07:30:44 AM
Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by: Freyland on June 26, 2016, 11:00:48 AM
I'm sorry for your loss, Barthheart. 
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Post by: Arctic Blast on June 26, 2016, 04:18:22 PM
Sorry for your loss, Vance.

On the plus side, it sounds like he lived a good, full life. We should all be so lucky.
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Post by: MikeGER on June 27, 2016, 01:34:19 AM
my sincere condolences Barth.
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Post by: Pinetree on June 27, 2016, 03:51:46 AM
Mate, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Kia Kaha. Kia Mana.
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Post by: Barthheart on June 27, 2016, 06:54:07 AM
Thanks again everyone for the kind words and good thoughts.
Yer all a great bunch.  O0
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Post by: Sir Slash on June 27, 2016, 11:06:13 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss Barth. He sounds like a guy I wish I could've met and had a couple of stiff-ones with and told a lie or two. Maybe heard a funny story about the little Barth-baby too. I lost my Father in 1993 but there's not a day goes by I don't think about him. Especially if I'm doing something I shouldn't be doing-- for some reason. But never forget, he lives on in you and any siblings you may have. And if you have any children, expect him to show-up again and again in them. When that happens, you tell them, "When I was your age MY Father would have....."  You're in our thoughts and prayers.
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Post by: Martok on July 03, 2016, 05:05:10 PM
Belated condolences from me, Vance.  My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. 

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Post by: Barthheart on July 04, 2016, 05:45:53 PM
Thanks guys. I'm traveling home today. Was a nice service and great to see a bunch of his friends at the wake we held. Lots of fun stories and great memories.
My sister is there for a couple of weeks with his wife and we'll be going back at Christmas to be with her.
:)
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Post by: GDS_Starfury on July 05, 2016, 11:43:44 PM
Fuck being sorry!  sounds like he had an awesome life and raised a great kid.

Celebrate that!

how many people have a kid that will eventually blow up the world with a black hole?
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Post by: Barthheart on July 06, 2016, 06:50:50 AM
Quote from: GDS_Starfury on July 05, 2016, 11:43:44 PM
Fuck being sorry!  sounds like he had an awesome life and raised a great kid.

Celebrate that!

how many people have a kid that will eventually blow up the world with a black hole?

:)

That's what we did last Saturday night. Gathered a bunch of his friends, plied them with beer and had a great time of story telling. Great wake and send off.