For those who don't like to play online with the kiddies. This game may be for you. And it's free.
https://steelraven7.itch.io/ravenfield
It looks more realistic than battlefield :D
I suppose it is whether it is fun or not (looks fun) Battlefield can be a chore at times....
Just a heads up, this is on my Steam homepage in EA for $14.99. I'd never heard of it....looks pretty darn fun!
https://store.steampowered.com/app/636480/Ravenfield/