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Title: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Barthheart on August 25, 2013, 06:42:55 PM
No, that's not right, gravity sucks Life blows.....

A very good friend of mine, whom I've know since I was about 16, committed suicide today. He was the most talents person I have ever known.
Heart surgeon, oil painting artist, custom jewelry designer, hand made furniture builder, hand crafted guitar and violin maker.
Funniest SOB you've met.
And a very trouble man.....

I'm sad... and pissed off..... and I miss him......

Greg, I love ya man.....


Sorry for the downer guys..... But I had to leave his name somewhere......



Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Bison on August 25, 2013, 06:50:54 PM
Barth.  Truly sorry for the loss of your friend.  Suicide is incredibly difficult situation to respond too, because it is a decision that is nigh impossible to understand.  God bless and comfort Greg's family and friends.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: W8taminute on August 25, 2013, 07:04:46 PM
That sucks Barth.  Bison is right, this is a tough one to respond to.  May God give you the strength to comfort your friends family. 
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Martok on August 25, 2013, 07:10:00 PM
My condolences on your friend's death Barthheart.  :( 

Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: besilarius on August 25, 2013, 07:50:19 PM
Barth, we're all her for you.  There is no simple, easy answer.  It will take some time to come to grips with this.  Let us know if it gets dark.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Steelgrave on August 25, 2013, 07:56:19 PM
So sorry to hear that, Barth   :-\
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: bayonetbrant on August 25, 2013, 07:59:11 PM
Barth - so sorry to hear about your friend.  I know everyone always wonders how such great people fall so hard, but sometimes we'll never know.  We just know that life's less robust without them...
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: TheCommandTent on August 25, 2013, 08:02:51 PM
Sorry to hear this Barth you have my condolences.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Staggerwing on August 25, 2013, 08:36:21 PM
I'm truly sorry to hear about your friend, Barth. My prayers go out to him and to his family. And you know if you need to talk or anything at all, we are all here for you.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Tuna on August 25, 2013, 08:50:02 PM
Sorry for your loss Barth, that's a tough one..  :(
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: LongBlade on August 25, 2013, 09:30:49 PM
Wow. Sorry to hear that. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: GDS_Starfury on August 25, 2013, 10:31:27 PM
remember the best of him.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Arctic Blast on August 25, 2013, 10:55:46 PM
Sorry about your friend, Barth.

Quote from: GDS_Starfury on August 25, 2013, 10:31:27 PM
remember the best of him.

Agreed.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: GDS_Starfury on August 25, 2013, 11:38:34 PM
unfortunately Ive buried enough friends to have learned that pretty much nothing good comes from asking why.
for me at least its a dead end on emotion. 
your buddy sounds like he was quite the character Barth.  be happy you knew him.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Mr. Bigglesworth on August 25, 2013, 11:41:22 PM
Best wishes to everyone impacted by the loss, especially you Barthheart.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Keunert on August 26, 2013, 02:36:27 AM
my best wishes too. sorry to hear this Barthheart
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Barthheart on August 26, 2013, 05:43:50 AM
Thanks for all the kind words.... it means a lot.
Greg and 4 of my other friends have been hanging around together for over 30 years. He will be missed. But we have a life times worth of great fun memories.
Here's a couple of his website showing his works:

http://gregscala.com/Artists_Bio_Greg_Scala.html

http://dellascalaguitars.com/Home_Page.html

Again thanks for the support.

Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Greybriar on August 26, 2013, 07:39:51 AM
I'm truly sorry to hear of the loss of your friend, Barth. At least you were able to be a friend of his for thirty years.

Think of the good times.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Gusington on August 26, 2013, 07:40:51 AM
I am sorry Bartheart.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: bob48 on August 26, 2013, 08:06:35 AM
Very sad news Bartheart.
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: JudgeDredd on August 26, 2013, 08:10:28 AM
wow Barthheart - that really sucks.

Strange old world that people who have such a profound effect on other peoples lives and seem to have everything going for them suddenly decide to commit suicide.

Real shame and sounds like a loss. God knows there are plenty of other people out there we could do with "not being out there"!
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: MikeGER on August 26, 2013, 09:15:15 AM
I am shocked Barthheart
... oh man, those works on both web pages are marvelous
Sorry for your loss! 
 
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Centurion40 on August 26, 2013, 09:30:27 AM
Quote from: bayonetbrant on August 25, 2013, 07:59:11 PM
Barth - so sorry to hear about your friend.  I know everyone always wonders how such great people fall so hard, but sometimes we'll never know.  We just know that life's less robust without them...

What Brant said. 
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Grimnirsson on August 26, 2013, 01:11:35 PM
Sad news indeed...may the earth rest lightly upon him
Title: Re: Sometimes life just sucks!
Post by: Barthheart on August 27, 2013, 05:24:05 AM
Thanks again for all the kind words and support. It really does mean a lot.
Had a bad case of the "phuc-its" yesterday and basically sat in my man cave all day.... not doing much really.

There's a service this Saturday and we're gathering from all over the province. Saturday night will be severely drunken.....

Thanks guys.