I am going to a local rodeo ... after a late breakfast. ;)
I dunno.
Jeeze ther 40... get it together... pick something and tell everyone thats what you're doing
Quote from: Windigo on June 14, 2013, 03:11:16 PM
Jeeze ther 40... get it together... pick something and tell everyone thats what you're doing
He did - he's going to spend the day being indecisive.
Quote from: Windigo on June 14, 2013, 03:11:16 PM
Jeeze ther 40... get it together... pick something and tell everyone thats what you're doing
Ok, I'll be winning a million dollars!!
Quote from: bob48 on June 14, 2013, 03:12:18 PM
Quote from: Windigo on June 14, 2013, 03:11:16 PM
Jeeze ther 40... get it together... pick something and tell everyone thats what you're doing
He did - he's going to spend the day being indecisive.
Hmmm, I'll need to get back to you on that bawb.
Quote from: Centurion40 on June 14, 2013, 03:12:58 PM
Quote from: Windigo on June 14, 2013, 03:11:16 PM
Jeeze ther 40... get it together... pick something and tell everyone thats what you're doing
Ok, I'll be winning a million dollars!!
You sure?
Fishing of course!
Working. Welcome to a rewarding career in IT.
My youngest lives with me and she wants to take me for dinner. Her treat. I think I'll let her :)
Quote from: Windigo on June 14, 2013, 02:56:37 PM
I am going to a local rodeo ... after a late breakfast. ;)
Do you live in Texas?
Usually around this time I visit my father's grave. Talk a bit, keep him updated on things, make sure his plot is neat and orderly.
I'll be bringing my boys over to their 'Opa' (my dad) for a visit.
Quote from: ScottP on June 14, 2013, 04:29:33 PM
Usually around this time I visit my father's grave. Talk a bit, keep him updated on things, make sure his plot is neat and orderly.
My sympathies, Scott. May I inquire as to how long you have been keeping him in the loop in this particular way?
Quote from: MetalDog on June 14, 2013, 04:06:27 PM
My youngest lives with me and she wants to take me for dinner. Her treat. I think I'll let her :)
that has a lot of 'oh that's sooooooooooooooooooo cute!' in it
. . . . its going to be great
Quote from: Windigo on June 14, 2013, 07:25:10 PM
Quote from: MetalDog on June 14, 2013, 04:06:27 PM
My youngest lives with me and she wants to take me for dinner. Her treat. I think I'll let her :)
that has a lot of 'oh that's sooooooooooooooooooo cute!' in it
. . . . its going to be great
It will, my friend. She is 19 and becoming an adult. She's actually listening and taking advice. It's an awesome feeling! :)
I"ll be driving. Seriously - 8 hours. Just dropped Bayonet Jr with my folks, and I'm driving home on Sunday while they take him to Europe for a few weeks. Then Monday I get up before the ass-crack of dawn and drop Bayonette and Mrs B at the airport for their trip to see her parents in Hawaii. Then I'm on my own for 3-1/2 weeks.
Quote from: ScottP on June 14, 2013, 04:29:33 PM
Usually around this time I visit my father's grave. Talk a bit, keep him updated on things, make sure his plot is neat and orderly.
My sympathies, Scott. May I inquire as to how long you have been keeping him in the loop in this particular way?
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My father passed when I was 2 and a half, and generally we'd visit his grave at least once a year as I was growing up. When I was old enough to drive I'd head out by myself, the first time I got lost and by the time I got to the cemetery I was worn out (driving for an hour through busy roads at a 16-year-old was terrifying for the first time) so I sat down next to his plot and just talked. I don't have any memories of him, being young and all when he passed, so all I have is pictures. Despite this, talking to him in this way felt natural and therapeutic. I keep silent and communicate mentally if I'm there with family, but every so often I go out by myself.
It's been 27 years since he's passed, and I wonder how I would have turned out if he was still alive. Being primarily raised by my mother, I'm different from my brother and sister in my attitude and mannerisms (I'm a bit more mature). I'm exceptionally thankful for my close friends' fathers for keeping an eye out for me as I was growing up, they made sure I had positive role models and that I was doing things the right way.
My brother and I have started a family ritual to keep his spirit alive. My father served in in the Army in the 60's as a mechanic (which is where my brother gets his wrench skills) and at the time of his death my mother got an American flag. When my brother turned 21 she wrote him a note and presented my brother with the flag. When I turned 21, my brother did the same to me. Right now I have my father's flag framed with the notes from my brother and mother, and plan on doing the same to my nephew when he turns 21. It's still ways away but I'm looking forward to it.
I've babbled on quite a bit. Hope I didn't bore anyone. Happy Father's Day to all you guys!
Quote from: MetalDog on June 14, 2013, 04:06:27 PM
My youngest lives with me and she wants to take me for dinner. Her treat. I think I'll let her :)
That sounds awesome - mines 5 and can microwave pancakes but that's it - apart from the advance in years ill succumb to I can't wait for stuff like this
Buddied up with my sister and brother in law who are local and made dinner for the folks. Went to their butcher to get some dry-aged steaks. I went with the T-bone...the goddamn thing was about 3 pounds.
Anyway, dad was happy, mom was happy, everyone was full and I'm a little drunk. Woot!
Scott I think your father is proud that you take the time to not only remember him, but speak to him.
Happy Father's Day to all you Grogs who have offspring running around.
Quote from: Bison on June 16, 2013, 12:51:49 AM
Scott I think your father is proud that you take the time to not only remember him, but speak to him.
+1
Just been given a copy of 'Fall of the Samurai" by my youngest son - ta very much.
Now he wants to do some Shogun 2 MP so that he teach his old pop how to play.......
Yeah, right! (rolls sleeve's up).
Good luck Bob. FYI there are no frying pans to dodge so one of your personal strengths will not come into play I'm afraid.
Aye, but there will be woks?
Isn't the wok Chinese?
Don't confuse me Bison...its oriental innit?
Well it ain't a rug.
Not a rug? Oh rats. :o
Well at least you'll avoid carpet burns.
Ouch - I've had a few of them in my time - nasty things, but (dis)honourable wounds!
Well since I'm flying solo today, I've decided that what I want to do is the following itinerary:
Eat some fresh spring rolls, something curry flavored on rice at a Thai restaurant
See Star Trek Into Darkness
Browse electronics at Best Buy
Attempt to win the freaking Getting Started scenario in First World War squad battles game. I've gotten so close to a victory only to be denied.
Installing 'Fall of the Samurai' at this very moment........ooh, the exitement!!!!
Quote from: bob48 on June 16, 2013, 11:17:33 AM
Just been given a copy of 'Fall of the Samurai" by my youngest son - ta very much.
Now he wants to do some Shogun 2 MP so that he teach his old pop how to play.......
Yeah, right! (rolls sleeve's up).
Awesome! I'd say you definitely raised your kid right. ;)
Quote from: bob48 on June 16, 2013, 11:17:33 AM
Just been given a copy of 'Fall of the Samurai" by my youngest son - ta very much.
Now he wants to do some Shogun 2 MP so that he teach his old pop how to play.......
Yeah, right! (rolls sleeve's up).
nice one bob - let us know how you get on
Quote from: Martok on June 17, 2013, 10:21:22 AM
Quote from: bob48 on June 16, 2013, 11:17:33 AM
Just been given a copy of 'Fall of the Samurai" by my youngest son - ta very much.
Now he wants to do some Shogun 2 MP so that he teach his old pop how to play.......
Yeah, right! (rolls sleeve's up).
Awesome! I'd say you definitely raised your kid right. ;)
Whereas my step-kid said nothing to me all-day (related to the Father's Day), and my 9 year-old son didn't wish me a Happy Father's Day until around 5:30 pm!! :o ::) :P Then, later (after supper) he gave me a couple of rocks from his collection, along with a hand-written card, $1, and one of his Batman drawings.
Quote from: Centurion40 on June 17, 2013, 03:13:17 PM
Then, later (after supper) he gave me a couple of rocks from his collection, along with a hand-written card, $1, and one of his Batman drawings.
Okay, that's pretty damn cute.
Yeah. But he's not too damned happy that I accepted his Batman drawing! He asked me if he could hang onto it a little longer.
I was wondering which gift was more difficult for him to part with -- the drawing, or the rocks. ;)